Marriage in 2011 Agree or Disagree ???????

 

What do you think about getting married in 2011? And can it work now? I think getting married is wonderful especially  when the two involved are ready to make a real commitment .  Marriage , to me is when you both understand going the bed angry is never good.  When learning how to compromise and listening are powerful tools in your relationship. Knowing your role in the marriage.  And my personal favorite just being quite. I had a long discussion about this Friday night with some friends.  I would love to know what you think.

5 Responses to “Marriage in 2011 Agree or Disagree ???????”

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   Posted by Alicia on 7/31/2011

   Its not for everyone, its def something that I think takes work on both ends and if marriage feels right that do it and commit.

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   Posted by Mike Hatcher on 7/31/2011

   I totally believe in marriage when it’s true.. Many times people get married for the wrong reasons and i’m a victim of that personally.. I have been married twice and still believe in that special someone being a life long partner and forsaken all others. The good book says it’s only suppose to be done once but god don’t know what we have to deal with in these modern day relationships.. Any meaningful relationship is hard work. One must know themselves to even begin to know their partner. Some people just aren’t lifelong compatible and that long term vision must come into the equation.. Do you really see yourself with this one person for life? Also i believe wisdom and experience in different relationships plays a role also. Modern day marriage is like a status symbol (love) more than it is the sacrament nowadays and i learned that the hard way. Love doesn’t conquer all anymore especially in a marriage it takes many more tools than that.. But to sum it up i will always believe in marriage.. Just have to be fortunate enough to find a person that believes like you and ready to put in the work!! ….. Meezy

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   Posted by Beth on 7/31/2011

   Speaking from my own experience, marriage in itself is beautiful. The thought of having someone for the rest of your life to share with, “to have and to hold”…
   Of course there is “who” you have chosen. It’s a big deal and requires a strong couple to handle the life that you both are entering in.
   I’m on my third marriage, it’s never easy and doesn’t get any easier… All require work on *both* sides to be successful. I look at mine as… “Third time’s the charm!” 😉

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   Posted by Austin on 7/31/2011

   Marriage is a great idea especially now if the couple is ready and understands their responsibility. It’s the best financial move as well.

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   Posted by P90X on 7/31/2011

   Not in 2011 but maybe in 2013.